why I STILL HAVE TO walk, EVEN THOUGH MY father GAVE ME A bike

My father is a janitor. I often help him clean up the ash-barrel houses on Sundays.
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In many dark cellars there are bicycles, which are often used. A few of them seem to stand around useless because no one seems to go on them. On such bicycles my father hung a note, on which was written “Please move this bike, otherwise it will be disposed of in 3 months”.
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Guess which bike he didn’t want to throw away, but gave me because I needed one! I’ll tell you in a minute…
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So one bike was well preserved. But it wasn’t quite roadworthy yet. This one was meant for me. But which one was it? I didn’t want it! That means at first I did not want it – now I do!
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Then the bike got fixed
His ex-girlfriend is now his employee in his janitor’s company. She said she knew someone who could fix the bike so I could ride it on roads.
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But she did not say two important details.
Namely:
- Â the price-i.e. how much the repair of the bike would cost and
- who would repair the bike.
My father didn’t ask because he thought it was just some acquaintance of his ex.
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But he thought wrong!
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His ex gave the bike to a state-certified bicycle mechanic master and not a hobby craftsman. This, of course, had consequences.
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Consequences worth 150 Euro!
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That’s how much the repair cost, although the bike-pro really did not have to do much.
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Well. So the bike was virtually free. But its repair cost my father 150 euros.
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And now, you wonder. “Why didn’t you want it?” Wait a second…
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I took the bike although I didn’t like it
Shortly afterwards I visited my father. He showed me the bike and told me that the repair cost 150 euros.
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Phew! I was overwhelmed.
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I rode on the bike for a short time in the underground car park. The saddle was very comfortable. The gear shift was easy.
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But you can guess that my legs are quite long. After all, I am 1.87 m tall.
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When I went around the bend, my knee touched the handlebars.
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Somehow the bike was high enough. But somehow also relatively short.
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But that was not the problem.
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You could have adjusted the handlebar so that I no longer hit it with my knees.
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Still, I didn’t want to. Although it was blue and blue has been my favorite color so far!
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Shortly after, I met A, a former friend of mine.
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So I sold the bike to A
I told her about the bike and told her why I didn’t want it.
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She said “Such a coincidence!” Because SHE was looking for just such a bike at the time.
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In addition, there was another problem. My money was scarce. But of course I had to eat something, the next few days, you know it.
But I did not want to ask my father for money again (after all, the repair cost 150 euros)
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That’s why I asked A if she wanted the bike.
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She has to give me something, however. The bike works perfectly and the repair cost 150 euros. That’s why I want something for it.
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She asked how much I wanted.
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I knew her. She also constantly has money issues.
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“60 Euros? Would that fit?”
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“Yes. Fits!” “OK. Here’s the key to the lock!”
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“Great! I’ll give you the money when we see each other next time,” A rejoiced.
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In fact, she gave me the 60 euros shortly after.
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But she did not become poorer because of it.
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Her grandma gave her the money for the bike.
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“Great! She was really lucky, ” I thought quietly.
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So now A has the bike.
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A and me “lost contact” anyway
A little later I quarreled with A about a trifle. She cut off contact and blocked me on all social media.
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But not on FB. A year later (!), I asked her if it’s not a bit excessive to be eternally angry about such a trifle.
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No, apparently it’s not.
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Back to the topic bicycle.
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My Dad got suspicious
At some point my father said “You should ride your bike!”
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Me: “Yes, yes,but…”
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I somehow didn’t have the courage to tell him what I did with the bike and why I didn’t want it.
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I first told the whole story Ms. S – a social pedagogue.
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She said, ” A gift is a gift! Even if the repair cost 150 Euro, you can do what you want with a gift!”
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You can imagine that I thought her opinion was great.
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But this is the actual problem
OK. All right. “But why didn’t you fucking want it?”
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It’s a women’s bike!!!
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I didn’t want such bike back then.
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Meanwhile, I would prefer pink, but this is blasphemy on a high level.
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Meanwhile, I would like to ride a blue women’s bike.
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Now I call myself Trixi.
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I told my father the story and of course what Mrs S said. That I did not want it at first, because it is a women’s bike – but I would like to ride it now – just because it is a women’s bike.
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And today my father saw me with lipstick and painted fingernails.
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Nevertheless, he is apparently still slightly annoyed.
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And I still walk or take the bus – even in good weather.
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